Know Your True Worth

True worth can’t be seen, measured, or bought. It’s why popularity, status, titles, achievements, riches, and stuff still leave us striving for more. True worth comes from what God knows about you and not what people think of you. True worth is decided by God, your Designer. It is not determined by how much you’ve…

The Labels We Wear

I grew up in the era of Jordache jeans and Adidas sneaks. Think Gap and Nike. I owned neither because they were too expensive. I would’ve given anything to have even one pair, but the closest I came to them were seeing them on kids at school 🤷‍♀️. Labels are important to a young girl…

Mirror Mirror, I Don’t Like What I See

Ok, so this isn’t me in the mirror but this is my shadow/profile 😁. As warped as it looks, it isn’t far from how I see myself. You see, I have a pretty distorted view of myself. The image I see in the physical mirror and the mirror in my mind is often not what…

When You’re Too Much Yet Not Enough

I feel this way more often than not. It’s as if there are 2 personalities wrestling inside of me. One feels she is too much. The other thinks she is not enough. I think I’m too much of the undesirable and not enough of the desirable. Too much of who I don’t want to be…

Identity Confusion

When you don’t know your identity, you will attempt to identify with others and lose your God-given, unique identity.

If You Got it, Don’t Flaunt it!

When I was a teenager (a few decades ago 😉), you have to turn on the tv or buy a sports illustrated magazine to see explicit pictures of half naked women. Not anymore. Now, we can swipe left, right, up, down, any which way and get free viewings of women’s bodies. Anytime, anywhere. Thanks to technology…

Real Beauty

In an ever changing world with inundated images and messages about what beauty is, there’s only one voice of truth you need to discern. God’s. He made you. When you find yourself comparing today, this week. Remember, your beauty is especially designed by God. There is no one size fits all. People tend to look…

Odd Girl Out

I don’t remember a time when I didn’t feel like an outsider. Growing up Asian was tough. I always stood out and not in a good way either. This picture says it all right? Our family escaped communist Vietnam in 1979 and long story short, God gave us a new home in America. My mom…